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Wednesday February 26, 2003
From: sarrah
Location: new hampshire
Sex: female
Age: 14
Favorite Movie: loser
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Dear Mattmanuel,
i recently wrote a note to a male friend of mine, dave. i don't know him well, but i used to like him a lot. my crush wore off awhile ago. anywho, the note said he is "cool, rad, and suave". after reading the note, he said to one of my friends, "too bad i have a girlfriend" and then he asked her for my phone number. when i got home, i found an email from him. it said, "thank you so much for that flattering note. i can only wish to be as cool as you said i was. what was the point? you sound like a cool kid who likes some good music. so anyway, give me your phone number and perhaps we can get together over vacation... check out some cds and what not. i'm not really all too interesting, but that's not a problem. so get back to me."
i wrote back to him with my number and such, said it would be fine to hang out sometime this week. he replyed, "yo. yeah, i'll call you prolly tomarrow... i just got real sick these past couple of days, i think i'm dying. so yeah, if you want you can come over my house... me and johnny can pick you up, cuz i dont have a car for another month and a half." this kid is about two years older than me. i think it's just him and i that are hanging out, maybe johnny [a friend of ours]. my friends manda and heather had a few things to say about that. "Dave is all fine and good to pick on and joke around with but...well....me and Heather just had a nice long conversation about the whole thing, and we think that if he barely knew you, like he didn't even know your real name he just knew you as 'little emo girl', then he gets a 'flattering' note from you then all the sudden he's all ready to drop this girlfriend who he supposively loves or whatever and go out with you. Thats not right to do to his girlfriend who thinks that her boyfriend is in love with her. I would be super pissed off if my boyfriend just started really talking with some girl a little bit younger then him and he instantly wanted to get together with her n' shit, ya know what we're trying to say here?!?! just do some serious thinking about the whole situation because it's totally fucked up. Just think about going out with him. For one, I know he says he's not gay but damn he does seem it, do you want a guy that is more concerned about his looks and hair and clothes than you are, ya know? and then he loves himself more then the average person does, it's kinda irritating.
Then he's all about the music, always......everything is MUSIC!!!! I love music, don't get me wrong, and so do you, but it's a little much dontcha think??? but thats your descion not ours, but thats our opinion. That and if he's that quick to drop this girlfriend, what if another girl comes along and tells him he's beautiful then what will happen to you????" what do you think he's thinking? is there anything you'd suggest to me? i really don't think he'd dump his girlfriend for me, but what if he does?
sarrah
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