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Alright guys (and gals)...there is this chik that i have basically not ever talked to....so my dumbass self skipped the getting to know her part and asked her out...i just walked up to her and said hi my name is ***** and asked her out that quick...i know im a dick...she was smiling the whole time...so she might have been feelin me.
anywayz after about five minutes of severe dry mouth and some real nervousness she said..."i don't know you."
then my persistent self said do you think i could have your ph # then ....and yet she repeated herself.
so is she not feelin me and should i leave her alone or should i try and get to know her...im not quite sure how to read her...tell me what you can get out of this...thanks eveyone
You're not a dick. In fact you have more guts than most of the people that write into this forum. Rather than standing around dreaming about talking to your crush, you're actually taking action! Get down with your bad persistent self.
Whether or not this girl was into you or not, you took destiny into your own hands and that's what matters. I don't think there's any harm in approaching her again because she may or may not be interested but if you've kind of made fool of yourself and lived to laugh about it then you can do it again. If that girl still isn't feeling you, I promise you'll find another someday who will dig your approach.
Pay attention Mattmanuel readers, talk to that guy/gal you've had your eyes on . Be like Rotor instead of hanging out in the waiting room for loser grab-bag.
Not only is it good that you're taking an active approach to crushin', but you're setting yourself up for SUCCESS. Here's how:
In another few days, approach her again and ask her out. If she says "I don't know you", you say "sure you do, i'm the guy who asked you out a few days ago".. this doesn't have a big chance of success, but it might get her to soften up a little, and maybe even make her laugh. If she laughs, that's a really good sign, because it means she's not thinking "get this chump away from me." Unless she's laughing at you, not with you
Anyway, it's a start to getting to know her, so you're on your way.